How to Enjoy Your First Escort Experience Without Mishaps

If you’re a man, you’ve probably thought about trying an escort service at least once! Having a cute girl come to your hotel, engaging in activities like kissing and fellatio, allows for a dream-like experience.

However, the first time with an escort can be daunting, not knowing what to expect and worrying about potential issues. In this article, the author, who has used over 500 escort services, provides a comprehensive guide on how to enjoy your first escort experience.

By reading this, you’ll be able to use escort services without anxiety, making it an enjoyable experience without nervousness!

Even for Your First Escort… Knowing the Basics Ensures Peace of Mind

Escort services involve a girl coming to your hotel to engage in activities like kissing and fellatio. Upon closer thought, being able to engage in intimate activities with a girl you’ve just met is groundbreaking.

However, calling a girl whose name you don’t even know can be nerve-wracking. If you’re new to adult entertainment, waiting in the hotel can be restless, and there’s a possibility of not getting aroused due to nervousness during the play.

But don’t worry! If you have a clear understanding of how escort services work in advance, you can enjoy without stress.

After calling the escort service, the girl waits at the hotel or your home. The rest is a straightforward process of the girl arriving and starting the play, so the process is not difficult at all.

Even those who are now regular customers enjoying escort services were once in a situation where they knew nothing and made their escort service debut with nervousness.

Before Calling Your First Escort, Things You Should Decide

When using escort services for the first time, you might tend to decide on a shop casually, thinking “I want a shop where I can play right away.”

However, there’s a possibility of an extremely unattractive girl showing up, or the escort fee turning out to be higher than expected. The list of potential mistakes can go on endlessly.

When using escort services, there are minimum things you should decide in advance. Let me introduce them.

① Choosing the Shop: The Internet is Recommended, Especially for Beginners

There are mainly two methods for choosing a shop: “Free Information Centers” and “The Internet.” You often see free information centers in downtown areas. They provide introductions to escort services based on the customer’s preferences.

However, talking to staff about escort services face-to-face can be embarrassing. Also, it’s unpleasant to be overheard by other customers at the information center.

Recommended is using online escort information sites. On the internet, you can freely research shops without being concerned, and escort information sites feature more shops than free information centers.

Representative sites include “City Heaven,” “Ekichika,” and “Review Escort Information Station.” By narrowing down based on budget, girl type, and the area you want, you can find a perfect shop for yourself.

② Choosing the Girl: Recommendation for Beginners is to Nominate

When playing with a girl at an escort service, there are two systems: Free and Nomination. Free involves the staff’s choice, and a girl is dispatched to you. It adds an element of excitement not knowing what kind of girl will arrive.

On the other hand, Nomination involves paying an additional nomination fee and choosing a girl from photos and profiles of those available. While Free varies by shop, many places introduce less popular or new girls, so it’s recommended to nominate.

However, girls’ profile photos are often edited. Check the girl thoroughly by looking at her selfie diary or the shop’s face-revealing videos.

If you can’t choose a girl even after seeing the photos, it’s also a good idea to call the shop and say, “It’s my first time; do you have a girl with big breasts who can lead gently?” to have them introduce a recommended girl.

■ Avoid New Girls at First
Especially at first, avoid choosing new girls at escort services. Since these girls have just joined, it’s challenging for them to take the lead due to their lack of experience. It’s more stable to nominate girls who have been at the shop for a while. Veteran girls who have been at the shop for a long time provide a stable service since they’ve dealt with many escort beginners!

③ Deciding Where to Call the Girl: For Beginners, Love Hotels are Recommended

For the first escort experience, many people struggle with deciding where to call the girl. The three options for dispatching at an escort service are love hotels, business hotels, and your own home.

The most reliable option is love hotels. If a room is available, you can call the escort girl immediately, and amenities are well-equipped. Some hotels even provide electric massagers, so if the shop and the girl agree, you can enjoy toy play.

However, when using a love hotel, basic fees include “hotel charges” and “transportation fees.” If there’s a cheap love hotel nearby, it’s a good idea to check. If you’re not familiar with hotels, you can also call the shop for recommendations.

Also, calling the girl to your home right from the start is not recommended. There might be resistance to letting an escort

■ When Using Business Hotels: Pay Attention to the Front Desk
Escort services can be used even at business hotels, but there’s a point that requires attention. Firstly, there are cases where the dispatch may fail if the front desk is vigilant.

Some business hotels always have staff at the front desk who can distinguish between guests and non-guests due to their profession. If the girl is stopped at the front desk, you won’t be able to use the escort service.

Also, if the elevator requires scanning the room key, you’ll need to arrange a meeting with the girl in the lobby.

If you’ve already prepared a business hotel for business trips or travel, you don’t need to search for a new hotel, which is an advantage. Additionally, since there’s no separate love hotel fee, you can reduce the overall cost of using the escort service.

The following site allows you to search if escort services are available at business hotels nationwide, so be sure to make use of it.

④ Decide on the Time to Play with Escort: 60-Minute Course is Recommended for Beginners

Once you’ve chosen the escort service you want to use, the next step is to decide on the playtime. There are typically short durations like 40 minutes and longer ones exceeding 120 minutes. The recommended choice is a 50-minute or 60-minute course.

It’s easy to get enthusiastic and think, “It’s my first escort, so let’s play for a long time!” However, you might regret it if you end up with a girl you’re not satisfied with.

While there are short 40-minute courses, considering the time for both the initial and final shower time and talk time, the actual playtime in bed is very short. If there are delays, there’s a good chance you might not finish.

However, with a 50-minute or 60-minute course, you can enjoy the first round with ease, including shower time.

⑤ Confirm if Credit Card Payment is Accepted

When paying for escort services, cash is generally the preferred method. However, withdrawing money from the hotel just for escort services can be troublesome, and we are in a cashless era.

Currently, many escort services accept credit card payments such as VISA and MasterCard. However, there are two points to note when making card payments for escort services.

Firstly, there is a handling fee of around 10-20%, making it more expensive than paying in cash. Secondly, when calling the shop, you need to inform them in advance that you want to pay by credit card.

Credit card payments require a dedicated terminal, and the girl may bring the machine or the shop may request settlement through a payment agency. It’s not possible to decide to pay by credit card after the girl arrives, so please be cautious.

⑥ Choose the Genre of Escort: Standard Shops are Recommended for Beginners

There are over 10,000 escort services nationwide in Japan, offering various types such as cosplay shops, mature woman shops, and big bust specialty shops. Some even cater to specific fetishes like menstrual fetish or girls providing robotic-like services.

While choosing a shop that aligns with your preferences is crucial, until you get used to the ways of escort services, it’s recommended to start with relatively standard shops like those with elegant amateurs or mature women. These shops have experienced staff, and you can enjoy stable services without overly niche plays.

Being suddenly faced with facesitting or spanking in a unique position by a first-time girl can be confusing.

Start by understanding the general atmosphere and system of escort services.

Explaining How to Address Your First Escort in 3 Steps

We’ve explained what to decide on initially when using escort services, but it’s natural to feel anxious when using it for the first time. You might not even be sure if the girl will actually come to your hotel or home.

As the author had similar concerns as everyone else at first, I understand your feelings well. But rest assured!

Next, I’ll introduce how to address your escort girl, so even first-timers can use the service with confidence.

STEP 1: Call or Reserve Online with the Shop

To arrange escort services, you must make a reservation first. There are two methods: calling the shop or making an online reservation. For beginners, it’s advisable to initially conduct the exchange over the phone.

When making the call, be sure to decide on the date, time, location, and course you want to play. It’s generally a straightforward process of answering the questions asked by the staff. The advantage of phone reservations is that you can ask questions on the spot, such as if there’s anything you don’t understand about the shop’s system.

On the other hand, online reservations have the benefit of not requiring a phone call, but you can’t ask the staff for recommendations or inquire about any uncertainties.

Switch to online reservations after you’ve become accustomed to using escort services.

STEP 2: Follow the Instructions to Wait at Home or Move to a Hotel

Once the course details are decided, wait at home or in a hotel. If it’s not crowded, the girl will arrive in about 15 to 20 minutes after arrangements are made.

It’s essential not to cancel or back out saying “I’m not in the mood anymore” when the girl is on her way. This causes significant inconvenience to both the shop and the girl. They may retain your phone number, and in the worst case, you could be banned.

If you’re calling the girl to your home, tidy up the water area and the room before she arrives.

STEP 3: If the Girl is Different from the Imagined Image, Cancellation or Change is Possible

When the girl arrives at the destination, ring the doorbell. Open the door and confirm the face. If everything is fine, allow her to enter the room.

However, if there is a significant difference between the photos and the actual appearance, or if the visual is something you cannot accept, you can request a change or cancel. Note that some shops may not allow either, so check in advance on the official website.

A change involves dispatching another girl, and it’s generally possible to change up to 2-3 times. However, it takes courage to inform the girl in front of you by saying “I want to change,” and it may take time for the next girl to arrive.

Cancellation and change fees are separate, so unless it’s a significant issue, it’s advisable to decide with the first girl. The quality of subsequent girls is not guaranteed.

Explaining the Basics of Escort Play in 7 Steps

We’ve explained how to call an escort, and now let’s introduce the process of playing with an escort following a series of steps.

Understanding when to pay and how the play begins will help you imagine the process. Once you grasp the flow, you can enjoy escort services with confidence in practice!

STEP 1: Move to the Hotel First

In the section “Explaining How to Address Your First Escort in 3 Steps,” we explained the process of calling the shop and then moving to the hotel. This is assuming there’s a gap of several days between making a reservation and using the escort service.

When using the escort service on the same day, secure a hotel before selecting a shop. Love hotels, especially on weekends, tend to get crowded, and it can be challenging to secure a room.

If you don’t have a hotel secured despite making a reservation, it causes inconvenience to both the shop and the girl. Therefore, enter the love hotel first and then make a reservation with the shop.

However, love hotel breaks are limited to about 3 hours. If there’s no girl available immediately, and it takes a few hours for dispatch, having about three shop options decided in advance is a good idea for smooth escort use.

STEP 2: Prepare Yourself Before the Girl Arrives

Once you’ve made a reservation with the shop, use the time before the girl arrives to prepare yourself. Take care of bathroom needs, trim your nails if they’re long using the nail clippers available at the front desk!

Also, if you’re using escort services between lunch and dinner, pay attention to bad breath. Some girls dislike kissing if your breath smells.

Brush your teeth and use mouthwash or mints to freshen up.

STEP 3: Greet the Girl Cheerfully When She Arrives

When the doorbell rings, the girl has arrived. It’s finally the nervous face-to-face encounter with the girl. If it’s your first time using escort services, you’re likely very nervous.

However, once you meet, greet the girl with a bright smile and say “Hello~.” If you’re unfriendly or seem unenergetic, the girl may become cautious, and the atmosphere can become awkward.

Once the girl is inside the room, proceed to pay the fee. Change will be provided, but paying the exact amount is smart.

STEP 4: Build Rapport with Simple Talk

Once the settlement is done, the girl will start the timer, counting the playtime. Depending on the shop and the girl’s play style, it typically starts with talk.

Discuss topics like weather, gourmet, or pets to build rapport. During this talk, mention that it’s your first time using escort services. The girl will likely lead the play with care.

If there are specific plays you want or dislike, it’s a good idea to declare them at this point!

STEP 5: Get Cleaned Up During Shower Time

The introductory talk lasts about 5 minutes, and then it’s shower time. From here on, follow everything the girl says. Both of you undress, and she’ll wash your body. One of the advantages of escort services is that you get to admire the girl’s body up close.

However, some shops offer services where the girl starts playing immediately without washing, known as the immediate play (sokushaku) style (some shops offer this as an option). Enjoy the sensation of being serviced with a dirty, sweaty penis—it provides both a sense of being pampered and a hint of humiliation. It’s worth trying once you’re familiar with escort services.

STEP 6: Leave the Play to the Girl, and It’s OK

Once your body is cleaned, dim the lights in the room, and move to the bed. Lie on your back, and the girl will cover you with kisses and full-body lip service.

The girl is thinking about how to proceed with the play, so let her take charge. When being pleasured, praising with words like “It feels good!” or “You’re cute, ◯◯” will make the girl happy.

After experiencing a range of professional techniques, choose your preferred play for the finish.

STEP 7: Enjoy the Afterglow After Finishing

Once you’ve successfully finished, take a break. Some may feel like leaving in sage mode immediately, but enjoying the afterglow after finishing is also one of the joys of escort services.

Even with someone you’ve just met, there’s a strange bonding that occurs once bodies intertwine. The initial 5 minutes may have been tense, but by the end, you’re likely having an engaging conversation and bonding with the girl.

If you have more than 30 minutes remaining, you can negotiate for a second round, but if time is short, wash up in the shower, and the play will end.

STEP 8: Thank and See Off the Girl

After finishing the final shower, both parties start getting dressed to prepare to leave. It’s a good idea to express gratitude to the girl with a “It felt great, thank you,” to enhance the favorable impression!

When the girl is leaving, give her a kiss or a hug as a farewell. This concludes the process of enjoying escort services.

Reflecting on your first escort experience, thinking about what kind of shop to use next, and what kind of play you’d like to engage in will make your subsequent experiences even more enjoyable!

Points to Note When Using Escort Services for the First Time

There are actually some points to be aware of when using escort services. Engaging in prohibited activities without knowledge can result in being banned or scolded by the girl.

It’s a common mistake even among those with experience in the adult industry, so it’s essential to keep these in mind to avoid any mishaps during your first escort experience.

① Do Not Negotiate for Intercourse

In escort services, engaging in intercourse (inserting the penis for sex) is an absolute no-no. Negotiating with phrases like “Can I insert just a little?” is also forbidden.

Engaging in intercourse after paying money would legally constitute prostitution, and in the worst-case scenario, there’s a risk of legal consequences. Some clients in the adult industry pretend accidents during normal position sumata to insert, but… absolutely refrain from doing so.

On the other hand, some girls might approach you with offers like, “I’ll let you have intercourse if you give me extra money.” As tempting as it may be for a man to pull out his wallet, this is also illegal (referred to as “enban” in the world of adult entertainment). Do not respond even if approached.

② Avoid Prying into the Girl’s Private Life

During conversation, be careful about the topics. As you become closer to the girl, you might be tempted to ask various questions…

However, asking insensitive questions like “Why did you start this job?” or “How much is your salary?” can make the girl dislike you.

Each girl has her own circumstances, and there are many things she might not want to be asked. Enjoy talks on neutral topics like pets, gourmet, or favorite anime.

③ Avoid Forcing or Aggressive Plays

Intercourse is strictly prohibited, but forcing or aggressively dominating during the play is also forbidden. For example, choking is a no-go. Many women may enjoy being choked during private sex.

However, not everyone likes it. Some clients forcefully continue play by saying, “Can everyone do this?”, but in the worst-case scenario, the play may be interrupted, and the client reported to the staff or the police.

Also, imitating intense fingering moves seen in adult videos is a no-go. In reality, many girls find it painful, and they will ask you to stop, saying, “It hurts.”.

It’s reassuring to ask in advance if there are any plays they are not comfortable with!

④ Avoid Bringing Food and Drinks

For your first escort experience, you might want to impress the girl and bring high-quality sweets or water. However, girls may find it troublesome to receive them.

Most escort services do not have a waiting area for girls, and after serving one client, they need to move on to the next location. Therefore, receiving food and drinks can be burdensome, and if it’s perishable, it creates storage issues.

There’s also the fear of not knowing what’s in the food and drink. While the intention to give a thoughtful present is understood, it’s best to go empty-handed.

By the way, high-quality brands of bags, Amazon gift cards, or luxurious accessories will make any girl thrilled…!

⑤ Avoid Licking the Face and Neck

When faced with an attractive girl, there’s a tendency to lick the face and neck, but these are plays not allowed in escort services. Strictly speaking, they are not prohibited activities, but it’s one of the plays that many girls dislike.

The face and neck are challenging to wash during a shower, and when washing off saliva, water can get on the hair, causing makeup to smudge. Once the hair is messed up, it’s not easy to fix.

In reality, even escort girls express their discomfort, saying “Please stop,” so be cautious.

Enjoyable for Beginners! 3 Recommended Escort Shops in Tokyo

Now that we’ve explained the entire process and points to note when calling an escort, you can confidently enjoy the play for the first time. It’s now time for everyone to actually call an escort.

However, for the first time, you might be unsure about which shop to choose. In conclusion, we’ll introduce recommended escort shops for beginners in Tokyo, so be sure to check them out.

① “Mada Name taku te Gakuen Shibuya-ko”

Recommended Points

・Idol-class girls are enrolled

【Basic Information】

Business Hours	10:00 AM to 5:00 AM
Phone Number	03-5428-4420
Basic Fee	From 16,000 yen for 60 minutes (Nomination fee: 2,000 yen)
Dispatch Area	Shibuya
Main Age Group of Girls	Mainly in their early 20s
Number of Enrolled Girls	Approximately 160

The memorable escort debut is an opportunity to play with an adorable girl that will stay in your memory forever. So, I recommend the shop “Mada Nametakute Gakuen Shibuya-ko.”

This shop is a school-themed escort, and the girls appear wearing school uniform costumes. The girls’ ages range from their teens to early twenties, and there are even idol-like girls reminiscent of Nogizaka46, so you can enjoy time with the finest beauties!

As there are many young girls, some might worry, “What if they don’t take the lead?” However, this shop is a popular escort venue in Shibuya, and many people have used it. The girls are experienced and skilled.

The fact that the girl smiles when she opens the door is nice, and her skill in livening up the conversation makes it relaxing and enjoyable!

② “COCODOLL♡TOKYO ~Cocodoll Tokyo~”

Recommended Points

・Enjoy lovey-dovey time like with a girlfriend

【Basic Information】

Business Hours	12:00 PM to 6:00 AM (next day)
Phone Number	03-6233-9311
Basic Fee	From 20,000 yen for 60 minutes (Nomination fee: 2,000 yen)
Dispatch Area	Shinjuku
Main Age Group of Girls	Mainly in their early 20s
Number of Enrolled Girls	Approximately 39

If you want to enjoy a lovey-dovey time like you’re really dating the girl, you should consider “Cocodoll Tokyo.” This shop focuses on creating a lovey-dovey atmosphere, and they will kiss and hug you until the last second of the play.

Although the age group is young, each girl thoroughly understands the shop’s concept. Even older gentlemen receive plenty of kisses, relieving stress and fatigue from work.

Although the fees are a bit higher than other escort services, the girls come exactly as seen in their profiles!

People who have had failures at other shops highly praise this shop. If you’re having trouble choosing a shop, definitely give it a try.

③ “Noko Soku 19 Tsuma Shinjuku Store”

Recommended Points

・Experience intense techniques

【Basic Information】

Business Hours	10:00 AM to 5:00 AM (next day)
Phone Number	03-5824-0853
Basic Fee	From 19,000 yen for 60 minutes (Nomination fee: 1,000 yen)
Dispatch Area	Shibuya, Shinjuku, etc.
Main Age Group of Girls	Mainly in their late 30s
Number of Enrolled Girls	Approximately 85

For those experiencing their first escort service, many would naturally prefer to be led step by step by an experienced companion. “Noko Soku 19 Tsuma Shinjuku Store” is the most popular married woman escort service in Tokyo.

When you hear about a married woman escort service, you might think of the comedian oasis Okubo, but this shop has enchanting and beautiful women in their 30s, resembling “Ryoko Yonekura” or “Dan Mitsu.” They look younger than the age indicated, and their skin is beautiful.

Moreover, there are many experienced women, and if you lie down spread-eagle on the bed, they will gladly serve your entire body. It’s recommended as some erotic wives will tease you with oral sex and passionate deep kisses before going to the shower!

For the first-time user, this shop received positive feedback for its “polite phone response.” You can play with confidence as they kindly explain anything you’re unsure about.

Summary | Enjoy Your First Escort Experience to the Fullest!

Everyone feels nervous about their first escort experience. Some may find it challenging to focus on the play due to excessive nervousness.

However, by firmly imagining the way to call an escort and the entire process introduced in this article, you should be able to fully enjoy the play. Finally, we introduced recommended shops in Tokyo, so start by choosing one from these three shops!